I got an extra long message from Lars but … since the break over the summer we’ve only met a couple of times. I seem to have lost interest in having kinky sex. Perhaps I was never really into it – merely curious. My sexual appetite has found its staple and seem fairly happy to stay on it.
And then there’s Darren who, after his last indelicate text about STI, I’m not keen on at all, as anyone might appreciate; he still insists on writing provocative invitations to meet. I have not been tempted and am now setting my course steadily with the few people I don’t consider a threat to my independence, but who are at the same time thoughtful and interested in me, enough at least to go out occasionally with.