Please read between the lines. I declined your invitation but you came back with a revised offer. I now have to figure out another way to say no without upsetting you too much but also to make it clear that I don’t want another date, ever. According to Jules whom I met up to say goodbye to last weekend, ignoring text messages is not the done thing, cowardly and leaves him more upset. I am a coward, I’d rather ignore the invitation but don’t want to upset anyone either.
Tristan: Hi Ellie. How’s your week so far? Seems I have the house to myself this weekend from Friday to Sunday evening. We should make some plans. Fancy risking my cooking one of those nights? You’re welcome to stay over if you like, too.
Me: Hi Tristan. My week has not been terribly eventful apart from catching a swarm of bees earlier in the week. When I went to look in on them this morning I got stung as the weather has been rubbish and they must be quite hungry by now and cross about not being able to forage. It’s most generous of you but I’m not sure if I am ready for this at the moment and will have to decline.
Tristan: OK. Sorry if I’m moving too fast. Something more ordinary such as another dinner in the West End? Sorry to hear about the ASBO bees.